Social Networking Sites : Safety Tips for Tweens and Teens

You’ve probably learned a long list of  important safety and privacy lessons  in your life:  Look both ways before  crossing the street; buckle up; don’t  talk to strangers; hide your diary  where your nosy brother can’t find it. Add one more lesson  to the list: Don’t post  information about yourself  online that you don’t  want the whole world to  know. The Internet is the  world’s biggest information  exchange: many more people  could see your information  than you intend, including  your parents, your teachers,  your employer, the police  – and strangers, some of  whom could be dangerous. Social networking sites  have added a new factor  to the “friends of friends”  equation. By providing  information about yourself  and using blogs, chat rooms,  email, or instant messaging,  you can communicate,  either within a limited  community, or with the  world at large. But while  the sites can increase your  circle of friends, they also can  increase your exposure to  people who have less-than friendly intentions. You’ve  heard the stories about  people who were stalked by  someone they met online,  had their identity stolen, or  had their computer hacked. • Find out how different  sites work before deciding  to join. Some sites allow  only a defined community  of users to access posted  content; others allow  anyone and everyone to  view postings.  • Keep some control over the  information you post by  restricting access to your  page.  • Keep your full name, Social  Security number, address,  phone number, and  bank or credit card account  numbers to yourself. Don’t  post them. • Make sure your screen  name doesn’t say too much  about you. Even if you think  it makes you anonymous,  it doesn’t take a genius to  combine clues to figure out  who you are and where you  can be found.  • Post only information that  you are comfortable with  others seeing and knowing.  • Consider not posting your  photo. It can be altered or  broadcast in ways you may  not be happy about.  • Flirting with strangers  online could have serious  consequences. Some  people lie about who they  really are.  • Be wary if a new friend  wants to meet you in  person. If you decide to  meet them, meet in a  public place, during the  day, with friends you trust.  And tell a responsible adult  where you’re going.  • Trust your gut if you have  suspicions. If you feel  threatened by someone or  uncomfortable because of  something online, tell an  adult you trust. If threats  continue, repor